Women, particularly white upper-class women, are perceived to have power. Livingston suggests through the voices of the sages, Pepper LaBaja and Dorian Corey, that transsexuality or "opting out" of queerness is not any easier. Pepper LaBaja notes: I have never been a woman. I can only say how a man who acts like a woman feels. A lot of kids that I know got the sex change because they felt like oh, I've been treated so bad as a drag queen, if I get a pussy, I'll be treated fabulous. But women get treated bad...so having a vagina doesn't mean you might have a fabulous life , it might in fact be worse. Both Brooke and Venus identify with women to such an extent that they forego their connection to their non-biological gay family and assimilate into straight culture. Venus senses the price she will have to make to pay to fully "identify" as a woman: If you're married and a woman, in the suburbs...and she wants him to buy her a washer and dryer set, in order for him to buy that, I'm sure she'd have to go to bed with him anyway to give him what he wants in order for her to get what she wants. In the long run it all ends up the same way.Venus's fatalistic comment gets to the crux of the "matter": either as a transsexual or as a straight woman, she is written out of the dominant narrative because "it all ends up the same way." Venus seems to understand that while white women have power in certain contexts, and while gay men have power within the context of the "ball room," their power is proscribed by patriarchal heteronormative ideologies. Venus's body and gender performance resignify the stereotypical "feminine" gender, but her desire for woman's power, such that she is willing to disavow her gayness to pass as a straight woman, produces negative results. Misogynist violence is doubly resonant: Venus is killed both because of her present male body which passes as female and because that vulnerability did not, in the end, offer itself to be penetrated . Friedberg suggests that identification, particularly through cinematic spectatorship, allows the subject two choices: to view and devour or to view and become (44). In "Paris Is Burning," realness is a stand-in for the ego ideal or what one would like to devour and become. Dorian Corey explains that "In a ball room, you can be anything you want. You're not really an executive, but you look like an executive, and therefore you're showing the straight world that 'I can be an executive.'" Drag become s a vehicle for reworking and camping "cannibalism."