"For, in fact, we only know of repression through its failures..." (Constance Penley)


The housemaid Collins endears herself to Stephen by remarking: "Doesn't Miss Stephen look exactly like a boy? I believe she must be a boy with them shoulders, and them funny gawky legs she's got on her! And Stephen would say gravely: 'Yes, of course I'm a boy'" (Well of Lonliness,19). Stephen's fantasy with Collins represents her budding "noblesse oblige" and the forming of lesbian desire: " Stephen pictured them living alone in a low thatched cottage...Collins would sit by the fire with her shoes off. Then Stephen would go and cut rich bread and much butter--and would put on the kettle and brew tea for Collins, who liked it very strong and practically boiling, so that she could sip it from the saucer. In this picture it was Collins who talked about loving, and Stephen who gently but firmly rebuked her: 'There, there, Collins, don't be silly, you are a queer fish!" (25). This fantasy is one that does not suggest proscribed roles, but indicates the possible fluidity of butch-femme relating. Stephen performs kitchen duties in a way that indicates her affection for Collins: she lavishly butters the bread, she prepares the tea just as Collins likes it. The butch's pleasure is connected to giving, "...her ability to pleasure her fem [sic] was the key to her own satisfaction" (Madeline Kennedy, 73). Though Hall is criticized for her use of role-playing, this scene is sufficiently complicated within the context of lesbian desire; contextually the details of the same scene would have been impossible with a man in Stephen's position. The exchange of desire suggests that superficially Stephen playfully rebukes Collin's advances. As butch, that is her role--to be the one who is approached flirtatiously, and rebuffs the same desire. Butch-femme nurtures difference, upon which erotic attraction in a heterosexist culture is based, within the dyad of sameness.
The flow of exchange in relation to gender roles is complicated by class structure. The class differences are acute in Stephen's relationships with Collins, Angela Crossby, and Mary Llewellyn. Stephen, in classic butch form, wants to provide and protect with her honor and money. In the fantasy with Collins, Stephen is "slumming", she is "living down" in a "low thatched cottage" with her housemaid. This fantasy is part of a class picture which can be viewed as both patronizing and subversive: patronizing in that Stephen protects with her money even as she condescends to "the help", writes about "the salt of the earth" as if she knows "them", and perpetuates notions of the "free" individual and salvation through bourgeois marriage; subversive in that she serves her housemaid in this fantasy, gives her money and property freely to Mary who needs a home and to Barbara and Jamie, working-class lesbians, and ultimately realizes that money cannot protect her because of her sexuality, and therefore works for a living by writing. Stephen's right to Morton (her home) and her inheritance can only be accessed legitimately through male privilege, therefore Stephen learns quickly that though modeling masculine ways does not grant one the phallus, it creates gaps in which occasional power can be mastered.